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How many of you would like to learn about proper etiquette? I will give you some insight on the proper manners of the earlier centuries. Nowadays we don’t have too many rules of Etiquette that too many people follow. I thought everyone could learn from this…even guys. So I am going to do a series on it.

Part I

Etiquette: Socially Acceptable

Manners make the man…or woman, as the case may be. During the Victorian age in England, proper etiquette was key in achieving self-worth and respect. From day to day social behavior, to personal relationships, etiquette during the time that Arcadia took place (in the early 1800’s) was a dominant force effecting the actions of the people. They are all very well-thought ideals.

Socially acceptable…
• When in the company of multiple acquaintances, it is offensive for one to blatantly inquire about the time.

• The only proper gifts to be given to those people other than one’s relatives include exclusively books, flowers, music, and confectionery of sorts.

• Upon one’s first encounter with a new acquaintance, it is not acceptable for one address the other in a less than formal manner.

• All greetings should be carried out with the same tone of voice–no favoritism should be shown.

• Despite your interest, or lack thereof, it is only proper to show apparent sympathy with the situation at hand.

• When you are accompanied by a companion while traveling, it is customary to inquire about their preference in routes, and consequently, use that route.

• You should always greet someone and call them by their correct title: sir, madam, miss, lord, lady, etc. 

Questions:
• Did you know any of them?
• Which ones?
• How many are still in affect?
• Do you do any of them?
• Why they are important?

A book called “Georgisms” is a great manner book. It was written by George Washington throughout his life - starting when he was very young. Simple manners makes one pleasant to be around.

Coming Next: Part II Table Manners

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Tuesday, January 15, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Vicki

Wow, Joce, these are some really great posts!!! They deffinitely make people (me at least) stop and think!!!

I have to say though, I wear jeans or shorts...and in the summer, I wear sleeveless shirts...not tank tops, but blouses that have the sleeves cut off at the shoulders....about the only time I wear a dress is for special occasions....

I went through a period a few years ago, wear I was wearing tight clothes, short shorts...It was silly really!! I wanted to prove that I could still be beautiful, after having 2 kids....I didn't really realize at that time, that my beauty comes from the inside..but anyway, that is a discussion for another time!

The girls are forever wanting to wear dresses...I guess perhaps I should let them...That is, after I learn how to make them some...I have not seen a lot of dresses to buy that would be practical for simple day wear...suggestions?

Again, great posts!!!

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Wednesday, January 16, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by gabbie427

Wonderful post. Thanks for sharing!

God's Blessings,
Amy jo

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