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Tales of a Busy momma
Sunday, September 7, 2008 - Update on what happened with the kids this weekend....
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I am going to keep this short sweet and simple. I went to get my hair cut and eye brows waxed and when we got back to town I met ex dh and his wife (whom I could tell was not in a good mood).. I tell ex dh there better not be any trouble this weekend.. And off I went.. I went to a town about 30 minutes away to eat with some friends and get a call from my mother who says " you better scurrie your little self back to my house. We need to talk and I have your kids.." So after several phone calls and a trip back to my car I get to moms house to find out what happened..

They stopped at my moms to drop off something and my mom went out to talk to ex and tell him she was sorry bout his brother and etc. She says his wife was hateful and witchy to her and saying things about the kids.. They left and got maybe 2 miles down the road and all heck broke loose.. Ex took kids back to my mom and took his wife home... Needless to say it was not a good weekend..

My kids do not like their stepmom and told their dad they do not want to be around her as she is calling them names and being mean to them. My ex did the right thing he took the kids back to my mom..

Anyway the stepmom got it to where they did not have the kids..

Please pray for her. She is having some problems and my kids are catching the blunt of it... I will not let them go be around her anymore.. My kids do not deserve that..

God Bless,

Mars

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Sunday, September 7, 2008 - <em>Untitled Comment</em>
Posted by RusticWheelAcres
Just my own opinion , and just based off from what you typed here so this may come across harsh.
Sure he did a good thing by taking them kids to a safe place back at your mom's but then I think he is a coward if he cant keep his now wife in line and allows such a nasty none sense to happen by her saying mean things to them kids, tha'ts exactly what she wants to keep HIM to her self and not allow him to take responsibility for his children....Shame on her, for being blind to the packaged deal of marrying him, but double shame on him for not backing up his responsibility as a father and telling her hey they are mine take em or leave.

I will pray and hope they both can have a change of heart when it comes to the kids, I cant imagine how they feel knowing their own dad cant stick up for them.

Jeannie

****Thank you so much for your kind words and I understand exactly what you are saying and feel the same.. God Bless.. *****

Edited by momma25js on Monday, September 8, 2008 at 9:52 AM
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Sunday, September 7, 2008 - <em>Untitled Comment</em>
Posted by gabbie427
I agree with Jeannie. LOL He is a coward, and I know him personally. He ought to straighten her out and make it known that she better not act that waty in front of the kids, and that she KNEW he had kids before they married!!!!!

I am praying dear.

**** Exactly she knew and yet she still got married so now learn to deal with it... **********
God's Blessings,
Amy Jo

Edited by momma25js on Monday, September 8, 2008 at 9:53 AM
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Monday, September 8, 2008 - <em>Untitled Comment</em>
Posted by gokings13
You have a lot of "un-doing".

Stay positive. Explain to the kids, God allows us to make choices. Their father has made "some choices". Some day, he will answer to his 'choices'.
So will you.
So show them how to look at a situation and make RIGHT choices. Help them to find out what the RIGHT choices are in Scripture.
Do not make excuses for your dh's choices........but do not make light of them either.
Don't run him down in the dirt (no matter how much he belongs there :-)
Don't act like he does. Take the high road
BUT
Protect your children.
Right now they see their dad choosing the other woman over you and them...........they see abandonment.
Stand next to them. Stand up for them.
Stand firm in Christ.

laura

**** Exactly Laura.. I am not running their dad down to them.. They know what is going on and we talk about things and they know about the choices. I am standing with my kids and loving and nurturing them....
God Bless,*

Edited by momma25js on Monday, September 8, 2008 at 9:55 AM
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Monday, September 8, 2008 - <em>Untitled Comment</em>
Posted by Anonymous
You failed to mention that he had to work all weekend and he DID have the kids yesterday afternoon after he got off work. They went to and won prizes at the company picnic. They were all in good spirits, running and playing, and enjoying time with their dad.

******** Yes he had 3 of the children for a few hours on Sunday and yes they did go to the company picnic, however his wife was not around... Please if you wish to comment at least have the nerve to leave your name.... And yes he did have to work, however that was not really my problem.. The kids and I have plans for next weekend that could not be changed and therefore I could not really change weekends with him.**************

Edited by momma25js on Monday, September 8, 2008 at 9:58 AM
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Monday, September 8, 2008 - I am sorry
Posted by blessingsbaound
I am sorry for the pain that was caused this last weekend. I will be praying that the Father show you His will and desires for this situation. May you be blessed as you minister to your family! Mrs. Joseph Wood

*****Thank you for your prayers and kind words.. God Bless****

Edited by momma25js on Monday, September 8, 2008 at 10:00 AM
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