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Getting it back on track

9:19 AM, 2008-Oct-9 .. Posted in Family Life .. 2 comments .. Link
 Today I am not frustrated (yet) and not frayed at the edges. It is my hope that I remain intact.
What helped me today (so far):
getting enough rest. I’ve been staying up too late and waking up earlier than I want to. My body just can’t take that and be happy about it.
Must adjust to the reality.
Often my expectations of myself and what I want to accomplish are bit, shall we say:
UNrealistic. Ahem.
I still try to be supermom.
Super homeschooling-work-at-home-youth-director mom.
And don’t forget
loving-supportive-helpmeet-extra-sweet wife.
Can you see my cape? Oh drat, its half stuck in my pants.
This skewed view can lead to periods of great success and just as successful crash and burn- as in
goingdowninablazeofglory crashing. Fun for others to watch (like rubbernecking) yet extremely un-fun for the spiraling an*l retentive person whose expectations just smacked pavement sotospeak.
I am determined to get enough rest.
I am determined to
not even attempt to climb out of bed until I’ve prayed and had my quiet time. Yes, even if I am running late I WILL do this. A day can go from back to worse just that fast.
Bad- blink-worse-blink- and we are into ohsoverymuchworsewordscannotexplainyouwould
havebeenbetterofftoberunninganhourbehindinyourschedule worse
. Yeah that bad.
I decided I needed to get back in the habit of committing my day to the Lord during morning prayer time. And the habit of praying over my schedule asking God to
rank the priority of matters- not me. Sometimes I get to thinking that clean underwear supersedes morning devotions with the kids or that really good part in the book I’m reading is more important than starting dinner on time. Or having a clean kitchen is more important than that way cool science experiment that must ultimately live in said kitchen for two weeks.
I am aware my priorities need a bit of adjusting. But I do stand by the fact that clean undergarments are incredibly important. BUT not more important than devotions. Maybe I could have the kids stand around me, reading the devotion while I stuff clothes in the wash? I’m Kidding! Really. I would so not do that. Be tempted, yes, actually have that happen- no.
My inability to stop multi-tasking can be compared to a kid skimming a test and only getting half the answers right. You miss a lot and get some things wrong when you skim the surface. I’m always telling the kidlets to “read the directions- ALL the directions.” Someone should take their own advice.

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11:28 AM, 2008-Oct-9 .. Posted by Isabella
I have days like this. I laughed about your cape. God Bless. I

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9:03 AM, 2008-Oct-10 .. Posted by Lynne
Amy,
I hope you don't think I am trying to make you feel worse, but I think knowledge is power.
When you have time, google "Nouriel Roubini". He is NYU Finance Professor, and he has been exactly right on all of his economic predictions for the past two years.
Yesterday he said there is a high chance that we are entering a worldwide economic depression. I am just telling you this because you and I are like minded. Get ready. I know you are close to paying off your debt. Keep going!
Think about how those who made it through the last depression did it. They did without, shared with their families, took in boarders to their home, grew what food they could, etc.
Unfortunately, unemployment is going to skyrocket. In the last depression, not everyone lost their jobs. The people who kept their jobs, however, took big pay cuts.
Your home may turn out to be your best asset if you need to take in paying family members/friends to supplement your possibly reduced income.
I know this may sound crazy, but Nouriel Roubini wouldn't say something like this lightly.
I am very frustrated because we had warned family members this spring that the economy was going to worsen and the stock market would be going down. We practically begged my MIL to put her money into short term US Treasuries (very safe but very low interest paying). She just sniffed at us and said she had a "financial advisor" and he is not recommending anything like that. She has probably lost 40% of her life savings by now.
BE VERY CAREFUL
I realize God is in control. However, although it says in the Bible that God provides food even for the smallest bird, he doesn't throw it in their nests.

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