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seventhheaven
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Its ok for you to recieve this help. Its God's way of providing for you. My family has received financial help at times. Remember God works through people. When you are on your feet, then you can be the giver knowing how needed such gifts are. Its always hard to receive. I suppose this is our fleshly pride. But know this. .. .(just a little something that helps me get through during such trying times.)..... " This too shall pass " Later who knows ... God may use you to help other abused women just because you've been there and have overcome. Even if you dont feel strong, God has given you strength and you are an inspiration to many, especially your precious children. God bless you.

Edited by seventhheaven on Monday, August 11, 2008 at 11:17

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gabbie427
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What a blessing to be able to go get shoes and clothing for yourself and the children. All of us have been in one time or another, in some sort of need, and had something given to them. What I like to remember is that someone helped me in my time of need, so now that I am able, I try to help others in need to sort of "pay it forward".

We were given some furniture when first married, and this past year, we were able to buy new furntire, my dream furniture. We were able to give the couch adn chair we had in the living room to others who truly needed it and were happy to have it.

Don't feel guilty!!!! You did not put your family in this situation!!!! This was not done because of something you did wrong. Sometimes it is hard ot take "charity", but thank goodness it was there for you when you needed it. Later, perhaps you can donate things to that same Goodwill store and pay it forward for someone else.

You are still in my thoughts and prayers!

God's Blessings,
Amy Jo

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Anonymous
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Dear Carrie,

Truly you are literally sick, and tired... poor dear.

When I've seen movies about domestic violence, I've never really given it any thought, about the history the woman shared with the abusive man. You had good times together, you were in love, so many dreams shared... I just never really got that from watching movies, where the story is limited to an hour and a half and the decision to leave seems so... simple.

How mortifying, to have to pay with a big, pink voucher at Goodwill. I mean, it's good that you received it, but it should be discreet. Maybe, someday, you will be in a position to change some things like that.

Praying for sweet, deep sleep for you,

Sabine

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Anonymous
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Dear Carrie, what you are feeling is perfectly normal for us "mortals". And who wouldn't feel "down" after going through such trials. Remember, someone donated everything you bought, hoping that it would bring help to someone in need. You are not "taking", you are "accepting". Someday you will be the giver. We are all praying for you and your little ones, and for the Lord to enter the hearts of your tormentors.

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Anonymous
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Oh Carrie, of course you are weary, this is a long and arduous road you are travelling. You are entitled to help and assistance, you need it. I know it is hard but take heart that it won't be forever. Sending you lots of love and prayers from England.
Kaje xx

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Jen S.
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Rest in Jesus - He can heal you and give you strength.

Don't feel bad about getting assistance - these are the times its for! Remember these times and some day when you are back on your feet, I'm certain you will give back what has been given to you - that is what being a Christian is all about - we love because He (Jesus) loves us; we forgive, because He's forgiven us; we provide for others, because He's provided for us. We all go through seasons - A few times a child, my Dad lost jobs (laid off) because of the industry he was in, and we needed assistance, but he'd find a new job, and during those times, we'd give. Its okay, and don't feel ashamed or guilty in anyway.

Still prayin'!

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Jonash2004
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Home is where you all are. Remember that we all at times feel likes strangers, pilgrims, wanderers. Right now you feel it more accutely, to be sure.

The nine of you are together. Let 'home' for now be wherever you lay your head. Someday this will all be past. Persevere!

Ashley

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HandsNHearts
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You are NOT a leech on the state or the system! It's about time that people who truly have a need for the services out there receive them. Too many people use the system and the state to fund their lazy lifestyle. Your's is above and beyond a deeply TRUE NEED. I can think of no better way for my donations or anyone's tax dollars to be spent. There are so many families and women/children such as yourself in this current situation, who need the assistance -- they truly need the interim hand-up to get back on track again. It is a blessing and a privilege to know that it is being used in such a caring and helpful way.

You ARE incredibly strong and possess the best anyone can...you KNOW The Lord and KNOW that He is right there with you, He has not turned away as so many of your church family has. What better ally could you possible have?

Your Sister in Christ,
Deanna

Edited by HandsNHearts on Wednesday, August 13, 2008 at 11:41

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Anonymous
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Carrie I just read your story today. I am praying for you. I used to work at a battered woman's shelter just after I got saved for about 4 yrs. I quit in 1995 to hs my dds. I can help you if you have any questions. They will help you but please guard your faith. I found it to be very feminist. Also many things you do and say in the shelter are documented by the workers. Part of my job was to document at least a paragraph on each woman that was staying in the house during my shift. I am sure they are watching your mothering skills and your emotions e.c.t. I am sure you are doing very well there. Just wanted you to know. you can e-mail me any time if I can help. ~Lady Diane

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