Given Moments
• Wednesday, December 31, 2008 - Debt
Debt... what a terrible word, what a terrible way to live, but how many of us do live this way? With a huge weight on our backs because we just 'have to have' this or that, or you know we just have to have the best of, or lots of times, we want it NOW and we DON'T have the money and so we pull out the old credit card and the cycle continues...
The above picture is not our debt, but last night I sat down and wrote out a debt list very much like the one above.
It listed our mortgage, a loan for our roof we had to replace, credit cards and a couple of doctor bills that are lingering from Shannon's stay in the hospital. It truly was appalling to look at the debt that we have accumulated. Most of which was our home loan. I have to take a lot of the credit for the shape we are in financially. I have been very naive and blind to the burden of debt... I had the 'worldly' mindset for the longest time...
Meaning, instead of remembering the verse,
Romans 13:8
Owe no man any thing, but to love one another: for he that loveth another hath fulfilled the law.
*I* had the mindset, EVERYONE has debt, I mean, how on Earth do you have anything if you don't????
Like I told you earlier this week the revelation about Self-Control, this has been on my heart also... a by-product of the lack of my Self-Control. I keep saying MY, but obviously it was OUR, because my husband and I are one... but honestly, I was not a very submissive wife in the beginning of our marriage and I was the one who nagged about this or that until my dear husband agreed. BUT... that is another story, and thankfully God has changed my heart drastically.
This is something Shannon and I eagerly want to overcome. We want to be able to be Debt-Free before we are old and gray. It CAN be done, I know it.
One aspect of our trouble is that Shannon is still in the waiting stages of finding out where God wants him... he has a job now, but we don't believe the position he is in right now is where he should stay... we are seeking God on where He wants him to be. Your prayers are very much appreciated.
Nevertheless, we KNOW God will bless, He always does. We will continue to be faithful in our little... we KNOW He is always Faithful.
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• Tuesday, December 30, 2008 - Year-End Liquidation Sale!!!!!

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• Tuesday, December 30, 2008 - Lunch and Shopping with a friend
Posted By Gabbie
Today I was supposed to get my eyes checked and my friend Jennifer was going to watch Noah for me. But the appointment was canceled due to my eye doctor having the flu. I sure hope he feels better soon!
So, Jennifer and I decided to first, get together and exchange Christmas presents, and then to go to the local Amish town and eat lunch and do a little shopping. We had a good lunch but my oh my has anyone else noticed the serving sizes now a days are HUGE!!! I brought 2/3 of my meal home for later! We went to a quaint little fabric store because Jen wants to make a draft stopper to put in front of her front door. I bough a few things, but didn't really need much. We also visited one of the Amish owned stores there where I bought some metal cookie cutters, Noah picked out one that is a cat. That is one of his favorite words right now. lol After getting back to town we shopped at a local discount store and then came home.
The weather last week was tons of snow and ice. But today most of it has melted, it is a little muddy, and 52 degrees, It was nice to go out in just long sleeves or a light jacket today. We enjoyed the nice weather!!! But we had to keep an eye on Noah. lol He was just about to run into a nice mud puddle before I told him no. Typical little boy huh?
Tonight I will be working on a few projects for swap partners on my favorite craft site (actually things for their children beacuse it is a children's craft swap), and after that is over, I am going to have to stop swapping so much. I have decided to start on crafting for Christmas 2009 on January 1st. LOL Can you believe that? I have a schedule all drawn out, and if I do about 4 projects a month (one a week), I can get all that I want done by the first of November. That gives me a little room just in case something takes longer than expected to finish up any leftover projects in November and December. YEAH!!!!
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• Tuesday, December 30, 2008 - Productive Days
Aunt Chassy and wee nephew, Baby Greyson... can you say, pure bliss??? Ahhhh..
Good Morning my friends! I hope you are having a great week so far. I am up this morning baking up the Cinnamon Roll dough I put in the fridge last night. Wow, they look GREAT! :)
Things have been going pretty well around our little homestead lately. Since Christmas I have been really productive, making lists and checking them off. I love it. :)
Yesterday morning we(the children and I), set out to 'declutter' the boys room. And we did! We pulled out bags of junk and clothes that were too little and too big and too many. We cleaned under and around and above everything and by lunch time we had accomplished a great work!
Today is the girls room...ACK! I am concerned that it might take us a bit longer there since I have to deal with my pack rat daughter, Cameo. :)
It feels so good to get some much needed tasks completed... A tidy home helps me to work better, to be much more at ease.
After we finished the boys room I worked and worked on laundry to get us caught up. I am happy to say that I have one more load to wash and 2 to fold and we are completely caught up... for a minute at least. haha.
I also went through books and papers and folders yesterday in the schoolroom. Shannon and I bought the children a few new-to-us books for Christmas and they needed a place on the shelves... so we had to rearrange.
Can you EVER have enough bookshelf space? I need a full room for a library. Or at least a few floor to ceiling bookshelves. THAT would be nice. :)
Mmmm... I can smell the cinnamon rolls and so I had better go and pull those out of the oven. I hope you have a super day!
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• Monday, December 29, 2008 - The Fruit of the Spirit...

Last night I tossed and turned for a good long while, one because I had a horrid dream, the other because I believe God finally got something through my thick skull.
As a family we have been talking about the 'Fruit of the Spirit' a lot lately, sharing with the kids that as believers and followers of the Lord Jesus, we should see these attributes in our life. And we do see some, and then there is one that, in my life... needs some work.
I finally saw that was a far deeper problem than I had ever realized.... Don't ask me why I have taken so long to figure this out... but God's timing is perfect, right? :)
Galatians 5:22-23
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.
Temperance...Self Control... Moderation... Restraint
Wow... who knew this thing went deeper than being overweight, huh?
Well, it does.
I have told you many times before how I need to lose weight... no surprise there that I need self control for that... BUT I also need self control in my life to keep my temper, to tame my tongue, to watch our budget, to not be lazy, to teach my children, to make sure I get up at a decent time in the morning, how much time I spend doing what *I* want, taking care of our home, to get out of debt, to study my Bible, to not be snarky... and so on.
Does this blow your mind???
Probably not, but the Lord revealed this to me. And I am so thankful for His beautiful, still small voice that whispered to my heart... Chas, you belong to me, bear fruit.
And I want to bear fruit, desperately!
Also, self control helps to make the other fruit sweeter... if you have self control, you won't be harsh with your words, you will be much gentler with your words...Gentleness
If I use self control I am being very aware of how great my life is, when I keep my eyes open to my blessings, JOY follows... Peace
Like I said, you may have come to these revelations already and God bless you if you have... but I was so thrilled that I just had to share. And, if you haven't... maybe the Lord is using what He taught me, to help others.
Praise the Lord, You are worth of our praise!
I pray that you will have a glorious day, aware of just how much the Lord loves you, I pray that His love will flow from us so much that it will bless all those who comes in contact. We need the Lord.
Bless you and thank you for your visit today.
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• Monday, December 29, 2008 - A Black Eye and Lots of Tears Over Christmas!
Posted By Gabbie
It has been an eventful Christmas season here. On December 23rd, I went to get a tooth pulled and it has been hurting ever since. I am trying to deal with the pain by taking Darvocet and Advil but I am so sick of the pain surging through the left side of my mouth. The good side to this is, since I could hardly eat the last few days, I have lost FOUR POUNDS!!! LMSO
Christmas Eve we spent a nice quiet evening here at home and opened our presents. It was just the three of us, and we had so much fun watching Noah open his presents and get excited over them. He got some new jammies and a sweatshirt too!
Christmas Day I woke up a little early to fix appetizers and green bean casserole to take to my brother's house for lunch. We had a wonderful lunch, opened some presents and then played a card game where you get to steal presents from others. LMSO It was hilarious. My side of the family is hilarious and very loud! While I was downstairs chatting with some of the women, Noah and Matthew were upstairs. And this is where the first injury of the season came about. Matthew was on the treadmill and Noah stuck his hand in it somehow. Matthew came downstairs with Noah in his arms screaming. It scraped the top of his hand some, but we were really concered with the inside of the pinky finger on the same hand. There is a chunk of skin missing.
We ended up packing up then (after being there for about 3 hours) and took Noah home because we neeed to properly clean the wound and give him some Children's Tylenol and they didn't have any, and I didn't have any in his bag. We cleaned the wound as well as he would let us, but you could tell he was in alot of pain, and we gave him some Tylenol. He fell asleep in dad's arms while sitting in the big chair, and I fell asleep on the couch while they were napping. (His hand is scabbed over now, and we put Neosporin on it and some huge bandaids, so we will keep an eye on it. I think it looks worse than it is. I thought at first it was broken...but thankfullyh only a flesh wound)
We went to Matthew's parent's house on the 26th. We were both dreading it, because his sister from the DC area was in town and she can be a real pill at times to get along with, and well, we have always had some hard times getting along with his parents and other sister as well. But we prayed about it and left it in God's hands, and everything went wonderful. We had a great visit, laughed and talked, told stories, etc. While Grandma and Noah were visiting in the kitchen, and the grown ups were in the living room though, Noah somehow got hit in the face, under the left eye, with the sharp edgeof a cabinet door. He instantly had a small blue brise under his eye, and over the last two days it has become more visible and spread across the patch of skin under his eye. I am so thankful he didn't get hit IN THE EYE. So he looks like he has a mini black eye. LOL Bless his heart!!! But that one he complained about hurting for a whole minute while on my lap until someone started playing with one of his toys and he directly stopped crying and jumped down on the floor to go get his toy. LOL
Injuries, laughs, tears, paper and boxes stacked to the ceiling on the back porch....lol, leftovers, presents, wrapping paper and boxes in the trash, "does anyone have this size of batteries?", homemade fudge, bowling on the wii, Christmas music, oh look at the lights!!!, but the most important was the friends and family we shared all of this with.
BTW, I gave the recipe scrapbook to my neice (the one who just got married in June of this year), and she LOVED IT. She read the letter in the front and started reading the litle stories before each recipe and started to tear up. She hugged me and told me several times how much it meant to her and how she loved it. Her favorite part??? A page in the back where I enclosed several of my mom's (her grandmother's) hand written recipe cards. My brother who normally doesn't pay much attention to stuff like this said it was an awesome book to be passed down to her children and so on and was so impresesd by my craftiness. The problem??? I forgot to take pics before wrapping it up for her about 2 minutes before we left the house on Christmas Day. LMSO I was still putting the finishing touches on it until then. So, I have asked her to take pics of each page for me and email them to me, so I can post them to show you all!
Now, I must admit, Megan, my neice got me back this year. She made me cry with the present she got me as well. Some of you may remember the story about the embroidered roses I cut from my mom's wedding dress after she died. The dress was water damaged and in bad shape. But the DILs and neices wanted a piece of the dress. So in tears, I cut it up and I made sure Megan had a rose. She told me she would tack it to her wedding dress on her wedding day and it would be like grandma was there with her on her important day. Well, she followed through with this promise and on her wedding day when I saw it, I cried. Heck, I cried all stinking day over her getting married. LOL Her present to Matthew and I for Christmas was a beautifully framed collage of photos, including one, that shows her lifting up her skirting in the front to show the rose from my mother's wedding dress. Other pics were one of her Matthew, myself and Noah (in his tux), one of Noah in a tux, one of Meg by herself, etc. As soon as I saw the one of her dress lifted up to show off the rose, I started to cry and hugged the picture!!! My neice and I have always had a special bond, but it showed this Christmas as we both gave each other presents that tugged at our hearts. |
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• Saturday, December 27, 2008 - Whew...
Whew... "Christmas" is over... the activities are over, the gatherings, the presents, the food.
CHRISTmas however will remain in us... the thankfulness for HIS Birth, the Joy of our Salvation!!!!
I hope CHRISTmas was a beautiful time for your family this year...
We certainly had a great one. We enjoyed some wonderful family time with our parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, brothers, sisters and cousins, nieces and nephews...
Today will be spent cleaning and organizing the house. Getting things in order for the new year. Feeling very ready for the new year, ready for new adventures, new challenges, new possibilities. Eager to see what this year will unfold.
I pray your day is wonderful, that your weekend is super, may God bless each and every one!
My Cup Runneth Over...
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• Thursday, December 25, 2008 - Merry Christmas from the Burrell's!
• Wednesday, December 24, 2008 - Moma's Favorite Christmas Cookie
Every year, my Moma asks for one special thing. A certain Christmas cookie I started making at least 5 years ago. Every year... it is just a given.
This year it wasn't until yesterday that I made her beloved cookie. Boy, she was tickled when she stopped by and saw a whole batch for her to take home. She graciously left us one each... :)
They are really, really good and being that they are made ONLY once a year they are special too.
I will post the recipe a bit later.
I hope you have a BEAUTIFUL Christmas Eve. God Bless You! :)
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• Tuesday, December 23, 2008 - I got my tooth pulled today, and now I am eating mashed potatoes!
Posted By Gabbie
Thanks for your prayers ladies. I was SOOOOO nervous about going in today to get my tooth pulled (it was breaking off, so I knew it needed to be pulled). It didn't help that I was going to a different dentist either. He is the father of a classmate though, so he knew me, teased me and tried to take the pressure off by talking to me. His assitant was a sweetheart as well.
He decided maybe he should do what he had to now, and then pull the tooth right after the holidays because he didn't want to pull it and ruin my holiday weekend. I told him, if it was left up to me, I would pull it now. (Because I know me, and I was all geared up for the tooth pulling. I was afraid if he sent me home, I would chicken out and not come back until it was too late to pull it normally and I would have to have it cut out) So he agreed to pull it. He numbed me up good (still numb at almost 4 hours now) which I am thankful for.
It was a hard tooth to get out because it started crumbling on him as he was pulling it and 5 times he had to stop to get another tool. I was in the chair for a whole hour and although it wasn't shooting pain (since I was numbed) the pressure of him pulling and practically standing over me was painful. He kept telling me to open my eyes and stop clenching, but I didn't want to see the metal objects coming at my face. LMSO
Finally he got it out, and I am aching a little now that the shot is starting to barely wear off, but not nearly as much as I thought I would be in. I took some Tylenol a bit ago and I think I will be fine. I ate some mashed potatoes and a biscuit (I know...the carbs!! UGH! But it was nice and soft), and feeling better now too, since I was so nervous before my 1pm appointment that I couldn't eat.
The good thing??? I was nervous about the tooth and have all my chores in the house done!!! LOL I started the dishwasher and washed and dried a load of laundry before my appointment today. I also cleaned the bedroom, living room, dining room and bathroom and wrapped a few presents I had hidden for hubby. I fixed a large pot of chilli for supper last night, so we will have that again for supper knowing I might not want to cook today and knowing I would need something soft to eat. So I am going to catch up on some emails now and relax since Noah is taking a late nap today.
Thanks again for your prayers!
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